اثر بخشی زوج درمانی مبتنی بر شفقت خود بر نشخوار خشم و صمیمیت زناشویی زنان آسیب دیده از خیانت همسر

نوع مقاله : مقاله پژوهشی

نویسندگان

1 دپارتمان روانشناسی بالینی، واحد رودهن، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی، تهران، ایران

2 دپارتمان روانشناسی بالینی، واحد رودهن، دانشگاه آزاد اسلامی، تهران، ایران.( نویسنده مسئول). mogtabaei_mina@yahoo.com.

3 دپارتمان روانشناسی، دانشگاه تهران، تهران، ایران

4 دپارتمان روانشناسی، دانشگاه پیام نور تهران، ایران

چکیده

مقدمه: این پژوهش جهت بررسی اثر بخشی زوج درمانی مبتنی بر شفقت خود بر نشخوار خشم و صمیمیت زناشویی در زنان آسیب دیده از خیانت همسر انجام شده است.
روش پژوهش: این پژوهش از نوع شبه آزمایشی و طرح مورد استفاده در آن از نوع آزمایشی همراه با پیش آزمون  ـ پس آزمون با پیگیری است. جامعه تحقیق شامل کلیه زوجین درگیر با مسیله خیانت زناشویی مراجعه کننده به مرکز مشاوره و خدمات روانشناختی ایرانمهر در سال 99 در رشت بود که از میان آنها  20 زوج (40 نفر)  با روش نمونه گیری در دسترس به عنوان نمونه انتخاب شدند. جهت جمع آوری داده ها از  پرسشنامه های ساخودولوسکی و صمیمیت زناشویی تامپسون و واکر استفاده شد. جلسات زوج درمانی به مدت  8 جلسه  2 ساعته (هر درمان یک جلسه دو ساعته) و  به صورت هفتگی اجرا گردید پس از گذشت سه ماه از جلسات درمان جهت سنجش اثر ماندگاری درمان زوجها در یک جلسه پیگیری شرکت کردند داده ها با استفاده از روش های آماری آنالیز واریانس با مقادیر تکرارشونده تجزیه و تحلیل شد.
یافته ها: تفاوت بین میانگین های پیش آزمون و پس آزمون از نظر آماری معنادار بوده زوج درمانی مبتنی بر شفقت خود بر کاهش نشخوار خشم (3/62 F= و 0001/0P=) و افزایش صمیمیت زناشویی (05/88  F=و 0001/0P= ) در زنان آسیب دیده از خیانت همسر تأثیر داشته است.
 نتیجه گیری: مداخلات زوج درمانی مبتنی بر شفقت خود باعث کاهش نشخوار خشم و افزایش صمیمیت زناشویی می شود. 

کلیدواژه‌ها


عنوان مقاله [English]

The effectiveness of self- compassion couple therapy on rumination of anger and marital intimacy women affected by infidelity

نویسندگان [English]

  • Zohreh Teymoori 1
  • Mina Mojtabaei 2
  • SeyedMohammad Rezadeh 3
  • Amin Rafeizadeh 4
1 Department of Clinical Psychology, Roodehen Branch, Islamic Azad University, Tehran, Iran.
2 corresponding Author, Department of Clinical Psychology, Roodehen Branch, Islamic Azad University, Tehran, Iran
3 Department of Psychology, University of Tehran, Tehran, Iran.
4 Department of Psychology, University of Tehran, Tehran, Iran
چکیده [English]

Introduction: This study was conducted to investigate the effectiveness of self-compassionate couple therapy on rumination of anger and marital intimacy in women affected by infidelity.
Method: This research is quasi-experimental and the design used in it is experimental with pre-test-post-test with follow-up. The study population included all couples involved in marital infidelity who referred to Iranmehr Counseling and Psychological Services Center in Rasht in 2020. Among them, 20 couples (40 people) were selected as the sample by available sampling method Sakhodolovsky and Thompson and Walker marital intimacy questionnaires were used to collect data. Couples therapy sessions were performed for 8 sessions of 2 hours (each treatment was a two-hour session) and weekly. After three months of treatment sessions, couples participated in a follow-up session to assess the duration of treatment. Data were analyzed using repeated measures analysis of variance.
Results: The difference between pre-test and post-test means was statistically significant and Self-compassionate couple therapy has been shown to reduce anger rumination (F = 62.3 and P = 0.0001) and increase marital intimacy (F = 88.05 and P = 0.0001) in women affected by infidelity
Conclusion: Self-compassion couple therapy interventions reduce anger rumination and increase marital intimacy and using this therapeutic approach in counseling centers to help incompatible couples to improve and reduce marital problems, increase satisfaction, especially in couples affected by infidelity is very effective.

کلیدواژه‌ها [English]

  • marital intimacy" marital infidelity" rumination of anger" Self
  • Compassion
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